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Scenario

When family healing gets complicated by well-meaning interference

My mom and I have been trying to heal our relationship after years of conflict, and we've made real progress, but my dad keeps inserting himself into our conversations in ways that feel like he's trying to manage or fix us, and neither of us knows how to address it without hurting him.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A third party's need to help is disrupting the delicate work of repair between two others.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Rumination and psychological loops?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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