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Scenario

When ADHD partners have conflicting organizational needs

My partner and I are both ADHD and we've been trying to figure out household systems for three years but what works for their brain completely overwhelms mine and what I need feels like chaos to them. We're starting to wonder if we're just fundamentally incompatible when it comes to creating a life together.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two neurodivergent people are discovering that their individual coping mechanisms may be mutually exclusive, threatening their ability to build shared systems.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Dyslexia ADHD and different minds?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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