My partner and I both came from homes where money was either completely chaotic or completely controlled and now we keep cycling between being too loose with spending and then panicking and trying to control everything and neither of us knows how to find a middle way that doesn't trigger our old stuff.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are trying to create something new together while being unconsciously pulled back into the only patterns they know, even when those patterns hurt them.
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