My partner and I both deconstructed from evangelical Christianity but we're processing it completely differently - they want to explore other spiritual traditions while I'm drawn to atheism, and every conversation about meaning or values turns into this weird tension where we're both trying to be supportive but also defending our new worldviews.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are navigating the aftermath of shared belief dissolution while their individual reconstructions are pulling them in opposite directions.
“Where Are You with The psychology of belief and ideology?”
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