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Scenario

When couples fear growing apart while pursuing authentic self-actualization

My partner and I both went through major career transitions this year and we're trying to support each other in becoming who we actually want to be, but I think we're both scared that if the other person really changes and grows, we might not fit together anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear that genuine personal growth might threaten relationship stability creates a painful double-bind between love and authenticity.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Humanistic psychology and self-actualization?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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