Periagoge
Scenario

When trauma survivors recreate familiar dysfunction in new relationships

My roommate and I both have C-PTSD and thought living together would be supportive but we're accidentally recreating toxic family dynamics — they're people-pleasing while I'm hypercontrolling and we can't seem to just be normal housemates.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people seeking safety together discover they are unconsciously rebuilding the very patterns they hoped to escape.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Complex trauma — C-PTSD?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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