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Scenario

When communal living becomes emotionally enmeshed

My roommates and I moved in together to save money and support each other through quarter-life transitions but we've created this intense codependent bubble where we process everything collectively and I'm starting to lose my sense of individual identity.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire for connection and support can evolve into a shared identity that paradoxically diminishes each person's capacity for authentic selfhood.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Logotherapy and finding meaning in suffering?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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