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When siblings with the same addiction are at different recovery stages

My sister and I both inherited our father's gambling addiction but we're at totally different stages - she's been in recovery for three years and I'm just starting to admit I have a problem, and when we try to spend time together she wants to share her experience but I feel judged and like I can never measure up to where she is.

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Inherited struggles can create both profound connection and painful comparison between family members.

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