Periagoge
Scenario

When couples repeat family patterns despite awareness

My spouse and I both grew up in alcoholic families and we thought we'd broken the cycle by not drinking, but we're realizing we just transferred all the same control and chaos patterns into how we handle money and parenting. We can see it happening but we keep falling back into the same roles our parents played.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are caught in inherited relational patterns that persist even with conscious recognition of their origin and harmfulness.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Neurodivergence — lived experience?”

Peri

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