My teenage daughter and I are both perfectionists and we've created this dynamic where we're constantly trying to manage each other's anxiety about her college applications. Every conversation becomes this spiral where neither of us can tell who's more stressed.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people with the same wound are trying to heal each other while accidentally deepening the pattern they share.
“Where Are You with Emotional intelligence as knowledge system?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.