Periagoge
Scenario

When parent and child share the same neurodivergence

My teenage daughter and I both have ADHD and we were diagnosed around the same time which initially felt like this beautiful moment of understanding but now we just enable each other's chaos and I don't know how to be the parent when I'm struggling with the same things.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared struggles can collapse necessary boundaries when the person meant to provide structure needs the same support.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Narrative therapy and story-rewriting?”

Peri

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