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Scenario

When family members try to heal perfectionism together but create new performance pressures

My teenage daughter and I both struggle with perfectionism and we've been trying to work on it together by being more honest about our failures, but somehow this has turned into a competition about who messes up more authentically and it's exhausting both of us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to collectively address perfectionism has generated a subtle new form of the same pattern.

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Patan
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