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Scenario

When family therapy feels performative instead of healing

My teenage daughter and I have been doing therapy together for months but we keep having the same fight about boundaries and I think we're both performing 'getting better' for the therapist instead of actually dealing with what's broken between us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The structure meant to facilitate healing has become another arena for the same underlying patterns of avoidance and control.

Your guide for this
Patan
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Peri

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