My teenage daughter and I have been trying to rebuild trust after some really hard years and we both want it to work but every conversation feels like we're speaking different languages and I can see her shutting down when I think I'm being supportive. We're both trying so hard but somehow missing each other completely.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people can be equally committed to healing a relationship while remaining trapped in incompatible communication patterns that recreate the very disconnection they're trying to overcome.
“Where Are You with History as pattern recognition?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.