My teenage daughter has ADHD and I'm realizing I probably do too, but now every conversation about her struggles turns into me either over-identifying with her experience or getting triggered by my own undiagnosed past. We can't seem to talk about her needs without it becoming about my stuff and I can see her pulling away.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared neurodivergence is creating enmeshment rather than understanding, with one person's recognition overshadowing the other's immediate needs.
“Where Are You with Dyslexia ADHD and different minds?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.