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When close friends struggle with living together

My two best friends and I decided to live together after college and it's been six months but we're discovering that our friendship doesn't translate well to sharing daily space and responsibilities. We love each other but living together is showing us sides of each other that are hard to navigate and none of us wants to be the one to say it's not working.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimacy tested by proximity can reveal incompatibilities that threaten the original bond.

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