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When couples face major life transitions simultaneously

My wife and I are both going through midlife career changes at the same time and we're supposed to be each other's support system but honestly we're both so scared and uncertain that our conversations just turn into mutual panic sessions that leave us both feeling worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people in transition are trying to hold space for each other's uncertainty while drowning in their own.

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