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Scenario

When recovery programs create competing intimacies in marriage

My wife and I are both recovering from different addictions and our sponsor relationships are creating weird triangles in our marriage — sometimes I feel like she's more honest with her sponsor than with me, and I know I probably do the same thing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Individual healing relationships introduce new loyalties that challenge primary partnership without clear integration framework.

Your guide for this
Patan
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