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When couples compete while trying to change together

My wife and I are both workaholics trying to have a baby and every conversation about slowing down turns into us comparing who sacrifices more, who's more stressed, who's doing more to make this work. We're stuck in this pattern where trying to change together feels like another competition we're both losing.

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