Periagoge
Scenario

When couples compete while trying to change together

My wife and I are both workaholics trying to have a baby and every conversation about slowing down turns into us comparing who sacrifices more, who's more stressed, who's doing more to make this work. We're stuck in this pattern where trying to change together feels like another competition we're both losing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very dynamic that needs healing becomes the lens through which healing is attempted.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

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