My wife and I are trying to decide whether to have kids and we both keep changing our minds but never at the same time. One of us is ready when the other isn't and it's becoming this dance where we can't seem to land in the same place.
More people experience this than they realize.
The timing of inner readiness cannot be controlled, yet some decisions require synchronicity between people who love each other.
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