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Scenario

When couples can't align on major life decisions

My wife and I are trying to decide whether to have kids and we both keep changing our minds but never at the same time. One of us is ready when the other isn't and it's becoming this dance where we can't seem to land in the same place.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The timing of inner readiness cannot be controlled, yet some decisions require synchronicity between people who love each other.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Complex trauma — C-PTSD?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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