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Scenario

When couples carry generational money trauma together

My wife and I both came from families where money was a source of shame and control, and now we're trying to build a healthy relationship with finances together but we keep triggering each other's old wounds. Every conversation about spending or saving turns into a fight about things that happened decades before we met.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are attempting to create new patterns while unconsciously recreating the very dynamics they sought to escape.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with ACT — acceptance and commitment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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