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When couples inherit financial trauma together

My wife and I both came from families where money was a source of stress and conflict, and even though we're financially stable now we still have these intense, irrational fights about spending that seem to come from nowhere and leave us both feeling ashamed.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Past wounds around money are creating present conflicts that neither person's rational mind can resolve.

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