My wife and I both come from families where money was either hoarded or spent recklessly and we've been trying to build something healthier together but every financial decision turns into this weird dance where we're both triggered by different things and can't seem to find our own way. We know our patterns but knowing them doesn't seem to be enough to change them.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering that awareness of inherited patterns doesn't automatically create the capacity to forge new ones together.
“Where Are You with Polyvagal theory in practice?”
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