Periagoge
Scenario

When couples with childhood trauma disagree on parenting approaches

My wife and I both had difficult childhoods and we're trying to break cycles with our own kids but we find ourselves fighting about discipline in front of them, bringing our own unhealed stuff into every parenting decision. We can see what we're doing but can't seem to stop ourselves from recreating the chaos we grew up in.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are trying to parent from their wounds rather than their healing, creating the very instability they hoped to prevent.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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