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When partners with mental health struggles can't find healthy support patterns

My wife and I both struggle with depression and when one of us is in a bad episode, the other either gets pulled down too or becomes this anxious caretaker, and we can't figure out how to be genuinely supportive without losing ourselves.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared psychological vulnerability requires learning to hold both care for the other and protection of one's own emotional boundaries simultaneously.

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