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Scenario

When couples discover fundamental differences while making major life decisions

My wife and I both want to have kids but we're realizing we have completely different relationships to money and planning and risk, and every conversation about starting a family turns into an argument about whether we're 'ready' that feels like it's really about our deepest fears and values.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A shared goal is revealing incompatible worldviews that neither person fully understood about themselves or their partner.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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