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Scenario

When couples over-analyze their cognitive biases during conflict

My wife and I both work in analytics and we've become obsessed with cataloging our cognitive biases, but it's turning every disagreement into this meta-analysis where we're accusing each other of confirmation bias or anchoring and we can't just have a normal fight anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intellectual awareness of bias patterns can become another form of defensiveness that prevents genuine emotional engagement.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Cognitive biases — complete reference?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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