My wife and I have been in therapy for six months trying to work through our different approaches to parenting and we've made some progress but I notice we both perform for the therapist instead of being completely honest about our resentments. We keep having the same fights at home that we can't seem to have in session.
More people experience this than they realize.
The container meant to hold authentic dialogue has become another stage for protective personas.
“Where Are You with Grief as psychological process?”
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