My wife and I have been trying to conceive for two years and the process is consuming our relationship in ways we didn't expect - we're either hyper-focused on fertility schedules or completely avoiding talking about it, and I don't know how to find middle ground together.
More people experience this than they realize.
High-stakes shared goals can create cycles of obsession and avoidance that erode the very intimacy needed to sustain both the goal and the relationship.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.