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When couples struggle with how to do therapy together

My wife and I started couples therapy three months ago and we both want to do the work but we keep having these meta-fights about how the other person is doing therapy wrong or not being vulnerable enough and now I'm scared we're failing at getting help.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very attempt to heal together can become another arena for the same relational patterns that need healing.

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