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When group intentions evolve in incompatible directions

Our book club of six women started as a way to connect more deeply but it's turned into a space where three of us want to discuss personal reactions and growth while the other three just want to analyze the books intellectually and no one's getting what they need.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A shared container has revealed fundamentally different needs for intimacy and intellectual engagement.

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