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Scenario

When friend groups develop inner circles that undermine the whole

Our book club started as five friends wanting deeper conversations but three of us have become really close while two others seem to feel left out, and now every meeting has this undercurrent of social tension that's killing the thing we all originally wanted.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Natural intimacy patterns within larger groups can inadvertently exclude others, destroying the collective container everyone valued.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Memory — how it works and fails?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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