Our book club started as five friends wanting to go deeper than surface-level conversations and we've been meeting for over a year now but lately every discussion feels performative — like we're all trying to say the right thing instead of what we actually think. I'm not sure if bringing this up will make it better or kill the whole thing.
More people experience this than they realize.
A group that formed around authentic connection has unconsciously shifted into social performance, leaving everyone feeling isolated within togetherness.
“Where Are You with Deliberate practice and skill acquisition?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.