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When friend groups struggle with mismatched intimacy levels

Our book club started as five friends wanting to go deeper than surface conversations but three months in we're realizing we all have completely different ideas about vulnerability and some people share everything while others barely speak. The dynamic is getting weird and I don't think anyone knows how to address it without making it more awkward.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group formed around shared intention discovers that members have incompatible approaches to depth and disclosure.

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