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How to Stop Taking Feedback as Personal Attack

Every time someone criticizes my work I spiral into this internal defense mode for hours afterward even though I know their feedback is probably helpful.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The ego-mind interprets external input as threats to its constructed identity, preventing clear discernment.

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