Periagoge
Scenario

How communication delays trigger abandonment spirals

Every time someone doesn't text me back immediately I assume they hate me

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mind fills gaps in information with worst-case scenarios rather than resting in not-knowing.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Cognitive distortions — identification and change?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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