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Scenario

How to grieve someone who hurt you

Everyone says my grief is complicated because my abusive father died and I should feel relief but mostly I feel confused and sad about never getting the father I needed.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The death of a harmful person can intensify rather than resolve attachment wounds.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief as psychological process?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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