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How conflict resolution ideals can override safety needs

I asked to speak privately with our group leader about feeling unsafe with another member and she said we should work it out in circle because everything is workable but I need protection not mediation.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The commitment to openness and working through everything is ignoring situations where boundaries and protection are the compassionate response.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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