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Why we chase unavailable partners

I attract partners who are emotionally unavailable and then exhaust myself trying to earn their love while ignoring people who actually want to be with me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The psyche seeks to resolve early attachment wounds by recreating familiar dynamics, mistaking repetition for healing.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

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