Periagoge
Scenario

Why we chase unavailable partners

I attract partners who are emotionally unavailable and then exhaust myself trying to earn their love while ignoring people who actually want to be with me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The psyche seeks to resolve early attachment wounds by recreating familiar dynamics, mistaking repetition for healing.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.