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Scenario

When you want someone back but know you'll feel trapped again

I broke up with my girlfriend because she was too clingy but now I miss her desperately and want her back but I know I'll just feel trapped again.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Attachment system confusion creates cycles of pursuing distance and distancing pursuit without resolving underlying capacity issues.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.