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Scenario

When fear destroys good relationships

I broke up with someone wonderful because I convinced myself they would hurt me eventually, and now three months later I realize I was just terrified.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The protective mind sabotages connection to avoid imagined future pain, sacrificing present love for phantom safety.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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