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When you repeat your parents' relationship patterns

I can feel myself becoming my mother in my marriage and I swore I would never do this but here I am criticizing my husband the exact same way she criticized my father.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unconscious family patterns override conscious intentions when stress activates inherited relational blueprints.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

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