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Why universal love doesn't heal personal resentments

I can feel unconditional love for all beings during heart-opening practices but I can't forgive my sister for what she said at Christmas three years ago.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Abstract compassion for humanity serves as a spiritual bypass around the specific grievances and boundaries required in intimate relationships.

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