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Why emotional tolerance works in practice but not in life

I can sit with difficult emotions during meditation but when they arise during my workday I immediately reach for my phone or snacks or anything to make them go away.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Capacity to be with difficulty developed in controlled settings doesn't automatically transfer to spontaneous emotional challenges.

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