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Scenario

How hypervigilance to others disconnects you from your own needs

I can take care of everyone else's needs perfectly but when someone asks what I want I go completely blank

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A manager part focused on external attunement has exiled the parts that hold authentic desires and preferences.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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