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Scenario

Why asking for help feels impossible even in crisis

I cannot ask for help even when I am drowning because asking feels more terrifying than suffering alone.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The inner child learned that needs were burdens and vulnerability led to abandonment, making isolation feel safer than connection.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Inner child work and reparenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.