Periagoge
Scenario

When self-reliance becomes self-defeating isolation

I cannot ask for help even when I desperately need it and it is destroying my relationships

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A protective part maintains hyperindependence to avoid vulnerability while exile parts suffer from unmet needs for support.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.