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Scenario

How to Set Boundaries with Family Members in Crisis

I cannot be around my brother anymore because his drinking reminds me of our childhood but I feel guilty abandoning him.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Legitimate self-protection needs conflict with learned patterns of responsibility for others' wellbeing and family loyalty obligations.

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Patan
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