Periagoge
Scenario

When intimacy triggers fight or flight responses

I cannot be in a relationship without losing myself completely or pushing the other person away

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Early attachment wounds can make closeness feel simultaneously essential and dangerous.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Shadow work and integration?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.