I cannot stay present during sex even with someone I trust completely and I float away no matter how much I want to be there.
More people experience this than they realize.
The nervous system may activate protective disconnection patterns even in desired intimacy when past experience has linked vulnerability with danger.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.